One of my biggest fears, which I’ve only come to realise in light of recent events, is that no one (who meets me, gets to know me and sees both the good and the bad in me) will decide to stay in my life. Maybe this is a fear that a lot of us have […]
So you’re probably wondering what happens if you or the other person breaks the NC Rule, right? I mean, we can’t control what they do during this time, so what happens if they reach out to you during NC? Well it’s in the name so the answer shouldn’t be a surprise. You give them no […]
There are many misconceptions about the No Contact Rule, regarding the outcome and the point, I would say. This ‘rule’ is something I actually hadn’t heard of until I came across it a few weeks ago, and upon doing some research about it I found that it was an incredibly popular theory and purpose, that […]
There is one thing that can happen when you least expect it. It happens without you even realising, and even though you are the one who instigated it, it’s only in hindsight that you truly understand why things are so complicated with that one person who’s constantly on your mind.
It amazes me how many times in an entire lifetime we find reasons upon reasons (whether they are valid or otherwise) to not give others a chance. Even if they have taken every opportunity to show us that they are amongst the most deserving and worthy, even if they have shown us that they are […]
It’s funny how sometimes even when everyone else around you can see something that is so blatantly obvious to them, is the one thing that you’re oblivious to. How can you have no idea, and essentially be the last to know, the way you feel? How can others possibly know before you do?
The age-old game of Push and Pull. Except, is it really a game? Who invented the rules for this weird, twisted way of interacting with someone we’re interested in? This is also commonly known as one person chasing and the other running. Then after that phase is over, they switch places. You can never expect […]
Before you hurt me, I was fine. I was happy. I had so much self-confidence and I was certain in the decisions I made. I didn’t second guess myself or what I was doing. My mind wasn’t full of doubt every second of the day. I wasn’t insecure.
What does it really take to move on? I mean moving on from someone that you’ve got a lot of history with, someone who you came to truly care for and respect and who meant a lot to you. Someone that you used to spend so much time with and over that time, grew close […]
Yesterday I wrote you a six page letter. It was a spontaneous idea, but I been thinking about you so much for the last few weeks that it didn’t surprise me that I eventually came to do it. Whether or not I decided to post that letter, though, was another matter. I thought about you […]